Together

The CDC reported that in 2020, 1 in 36 8-yr olds had been diagnosed with autism. That’s almost 3% of the 8-yr old population. Logically, then 3% of parents find themselves raising an autistic child. I could look up the number of parents, do the appropriate calculation, account for those with multiple children on the spectrum and . . .

But does it really matter? (And do I really have to do math?)

The point is: there’s a lot of us. And although our children are each their own unique selves, they likely share common challenges. Difficulties with communication, self-care, and emotional regulation, among other things, seem to be universal. As parents of these special kiddos, we share the role of helping them overcome these challenges.

And we also share triumphs—the small, seemingly inconsequential things that to parents of these children, are anything but ordinary. The four-year old who finally says, “Mama.” The seven-year old who, after three years of effort, finally uses the toilet independently. The picky eater who finally, voluntarily tries a new food.

I’ve logged more than fifteen years as an autism parent. Along the way, other parents—not doctors or scientists or even therapists-- have been my greatest source of comfort and steady support. We’re part of a special club. We “get” what others never will. This site is dedicated to my son and all other children struggling to thrive in a world not built for their unique minds. And to their parents, who comfort, encourage, and advocate endlessly for their futures. I hope you’ll share your stories, so that we can ease each others’ fears and celebrate the joys. Together, we can guide our children to reach their full potential, whatever that may look like.